Live to Love

Let all that you do be done in love. (1 Corinthians 16:14)

We are commanded to love. Our thoughts should reflect love. Our words should reflect love. Our actions should reflect love. If we are followers of Christ, love should be reflected in our lives.

Anyone who does not love does not know God, because God is love. (1 John 4:8)

God is love. He created love….this amazing human emotion that can bring us pain at times, but also bring us so much joy. When we love in the manner that God loves, the experiences and blessings are unequaled.

What keeps us from loving like God? Anger, resentment, rage, doubt, and fear get in our way. Jealousy, pride, and despair move in. Before we know it, love has been buried by all these other raw human emotions. Hope is lost, joy is not visible, and our faith plummets. The devil wins.

Let’s strive to keep our victory in Jesus. Let’s live our lives in love….love for our Father, and love for our brothers and sisters in Christ. Let’s not dole out our love based on what we receive, but give it freely based on the word of God. Above all, keep loving one another earnestly, since love covers a multitude of sins. (1 Peter 4:8). Owe no one anything, except to love each other, for the one who loves another has fulfilled the law. (Romans 13:8)

A new year is on the horizon. May we all grasp the opportunity to live in unity and brotherly love. May we live humbly amongst our brothers and sisters with compassion and tenderness. Finally, all of you, have unity of mind, sympathy, brotherly love, a tender heart, and a humble mind. ( 1 Peter 3:8)

A Time to Embrace

As this year winds down, I am certain many of you are doing the same thing I am doing….reflecting on the year, cherishing the sweet memories, thinking about the things you wish you had done differently. Wouldn’t it be great if we could get a “do over” on all the things that didn’t go well this year? Unfortunately, that is not how it works. We must take the good with the bad, and move forward into the coming year with intentions of making it great.

As I have pondered the new year, as I have thought on my hopes and desires for this next 365 days, I have decided that I will choose one word to define my year. This one word will be the word I will continually re-visit. I will journal, I will study, I will grow by focusing on this word. I will be all that God wants me to be by keeping my sights on Him, and by thinking on this word.

What is my word, you ask? It is EMBRACE. I want to embrace ALL that God has planned for me. I want to embrace the people He puts in my path. I want to embrace opportunities that come my way. I want to embrace the goodness I see within myself, without feeling haughty or lacking in humility by doing so. I want to embrace my family and cherish our moments. I want to embrace my ministry and watch it flourish. And I want to embrace all this just the way God gives it to me, without trying to change anything to fit within my invisible boundaries of what I think it should be. I get this life, this one life, to do God’s will. I get this one opportunity to be a sharer of the word. I get one chance to use my life to lead others to Christ. I am not going to WASTE this gift….I am going to EMBRACE it.

Let the words of my mouth and the meditation of my heart be acceptable in your sight, O Lord, my rock and my redeemer. (Psalm 19:14)

“Good Morning Beautiful”

My husband has a servant’s heart. He serves our community as a councilman. He serves our church as an elder, and he serves our family as its leader. He is always willing to go the extra mile to make things special, he will cook for and feed the masses, and he uses his gifts and talents wisely.

Every morning this sweet man brings me my coffee. It always tastes best when he makes it. He says it is because he puts an extra spoonful of love in it. He pours that coffee in my cup and sets it down on the table next to me and says, “Good Morning Beautiful.” That is exactly what my cup says, and he makes a point to say it out loud each time. He makes a point to serve his wife each morning, and he does it joyfully. He takes the time to make me feel special each day. It is such a small gesture, but it speaks volumes to me about the depth of his love and devotion to me.

God has placed in my path a man who will love, honor and treasure me all my days. I have been gifted with this person who finds joy in making me smile. I am not a morning person. I am not a raving beauty. But this man….he makes my mornings a little brighter, and sees the beauty in me that I cannot. Thank you, Lord, for this sweet, precious, and priceless gift. I am blessed!

“Likewise, husbands, live with your wives in an understanding way, showing honor to the woman as the weaker vessel, since they are heirs with you of the grave of life, so that your prayers may not be hindered.” 1 Peter 3:7

Faith Wins


It has been a long few weeks. Illness has taken command over my body and I have had to bow out of some things on my schedule. With the hustle and bustle of the season, I have found myself waiting in too many long checkout lines, and stuck in too much traffic. I have made plans to spend quiet time at home with my family, enjoying this special time of the year, and things have gotten in the way of that. One failure after another, as I strive to make this the perfect Christmas season for my family. What is it they say about the best laid plans?

I have found myself awake in the wee hours, going back and forth between praying for specific needs in my family, and planning my next strategic move to make the most of the coming day. Everything that gets me off course in that plan gives me a sense of failure, a sense of ineptitude.

Jesus spoke to me in the wee hours last night. He was right there with the rain drops that were sounding on my roof. He was right there amidst the night sounds of my home. He was right there in my troubled heart. He reminded me that my plans may not be, and most likely are not, His plans. He reminded me that this is a season of love and joy, a season of peace and happiness. This is not a season of stress, anxiety, or worry. It’s not about long lines and perfect gifts, it’s about love and family, and faith.

Is my faith strong enough to overcome my feelings of failure? Yes it is! I know I am fearfully and wonderfully made. I know God has great plans for my life. I know I don’t have to be, and could never be, perfect. I know that when I fall, He will pick me up. And I know that I am ready to put the hustle and bustle aside. I am ready to let enough be enough. I am ready to look at the gifts under my tree and say….it is finished. I am ready to get to the heart of this season. I am ready to laugh and love, and toss my stress out the window. I am prepared to let the unscheduled and unexpected happen….that is where the blessings come. I am ready for my home to be filled with the sounds of joy and the sights of happiness. My sense of failure will no longer own me….FAITH WINS!

I Whisper Up To Heaven

I whisper up to Heaven, “God, I can’t take one more step”

He takes my hand, smiles, and says, “We just aren’t finished yet.”

I whisper up to Heaven, “Why do I feel so blue?”
His gentle voice responds to me, “Never doubt my love for you.”

I whisper up to Heaven,”Lord, I just can’t run this race.”
His soft assurance speaks to me, “I am with you in this place.”

I whisper up to Heaven, “I am so tired, overwhelmed, and sad.”
He calls to me upon the breeze,”My child, rejoice and be glad.”

I whisper up to Heaven, “Lord, why are you so far away?”
His calming spirit surrounds me as He says, “I am here, and here I’ll stay.”

I whisper up to Heaven, “Lord, I’m losing all my hope.”
He assures me that He is with me as I walk this slippery slope.

I whisper up to Heaven, “Lord, I feel your presence here.”
The voice of my Father answers, “ I am always with you, dear.”

I whisper up to Heaven, “I can feel my spirits start to lift.”
His answers me, “You’ve got this! Now go and use your gift!”

I whisper up to Heaven “Lord, thanks for loving me!”
His love flow through my heart as He says, “That’s how it will ALWAYS be.”

Be PRESENT Among the Presents

imageI am feeling frustration bubbling up in me today. My “to-do” list for the day is more than my brain can wrap around. My famous “Christmas Fudge” hasn’t even been made yet, I have missed most of the Hallmark Christmas movies,my shopping isn’t finished (and let’s not even talk about the wrapping!), I haven’t had a chance to just sit and enjoy my tree and lights, and this stinkin’ cough won’t go away!

The great thing is…God is still on the throne! He is speaking to my heart and telling me that my frustration is from the enemy. He is telling me that I still have days of this Christmas season left to cherish the special moments, to finish my shopping and wrapping, to get made fudge made, and to enjoy the twinkling of my lights. He is telling me that the next couple of weeks need to be about my family, not my obligations. I need to be cleaning up cookie dough and wiping chocolate from the faces of my children. I need to be playing games and sharing memories of Christmas past. I need to take my daughters to lunch and share some giggles. I need to sneak away with my hubby for a late night stocking stuffer shopping spree. I need to help my children wrap the gifts they bought at Santa Shop. I need to be PRESENT among the presents!

Thank you Lord that you speak to me when I am weary. Thank you Lord that your strength is given to me. Thank you Lord that YOU are my reason for this season!

An Answer of “YES!”

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An Answer of “YES!”

As we draw closer to Christmas and ponder the birth of our Savior, it is only fair that we take a moment to ponder Mary, that special young mother whose faith changed the world.

Mary was just a young teen.  Like any other girl her age, she was looking forward to marriage and raising a family.  She had NO IDEA what was about to be asked of her!  Just imagine an angel coming to you, telling you that you would be impregnated with the Son of God. Mary…not even wed yet…had this challenge placed before her.

She could have said, “NO WAY!” She could have laughed at the angel in disbelief or shunned what God wanted from her.  But not Mary.  Her faith was strong and her obedience was stronger.  “I am the Lord’s servant” Mary answered, “Your word to me be fulfilled.”  (Luke 1:38).  Mary had an awesome reverence for God.  No doubt she had apprehensions…what was Joseph going to say? What would her family and friends say? Would anyone believe his immaculate conception?  Mary could be stoned to death for her indiscretion.  But Mary’s faith did not waiver.  She said “Yes”, knowing the challenges that lay ahead of her in the near future, but trusting God through it all.  Are you as trusting and faithful in your service to God?

Yes, she realized the scorn she would face, and the test this would be on her relationship with Joseph.  And surely she had heard the tales of childbirth and the pain she would face when Jesus entered the world.  But did she realize that she would not be surrounded by her mother or familiar women when that time came?  Did she have any idea that her first experience with childbirth would be in a smelly stable with only Joseph at her side?

Even more so, did she realize what the future held for her heart?  She would have a child, who at the age of 12, would rather sit in the temple than be with her.  “His parents went to Jerusalem every year at the Feast of the Passover.  And when He was twelve years old, they went up to Jerusalem according to the custom of the feast.  When they had finished the days, as they returned, the Boy Jesus lingered behind in Jerusalem.  And Joseph and His mother did not know it; but supposing Him to have been in the company, they went a day’s journey, and sought Him among their relatives and acquaintances.  So when they did not find Him, they returned to Jerusalem, seeking Him.  Now so it was that after three days they found Him in the temple, siting in the midst of the teachers, both listening to them and asking them questions. And all who heard Him were astonished at His understanding and answers.  So when they saw Him, they were amazed; and his mother said to Him, ‘Son, why have You done this to us?  Look, your father and I have sought You anxiously.’ And He said to them, ‘Why do you seek Me? Did you not know that I must be about my Father’s business?’ (Luke 2:41-49) From the time they are born, we are preparing to lose our children.  He was doing exactly what He was brought here to do.  But Mary was still a mama, and not being able to find Him was frightening to her.

Later, as an adult, He would fail to acknowledge her as she knocked at the door to see him. “While He was still talking to the multitudes, behold, His mother and brothers stood outside, seeking to speak with Him.  Then one said to Him, ‘Look, Your mother and Your brothers are standing outside, seeking to speak with You.’ But He answered and said to the one who told Him, ‘Who is My mother and who are My brothers?’ (Matthew 12:46-49) That might have heart her “mama heart” just a little bit, don’t you think?  This is just another example of her “losing” Him.

What about all the time that Jesus spent walking the land, preaching and teaching?  Everyone wanted a piece of Him…a touch of His hand, a bit of His time, a stroke of His garment.  She must have spent a lot of time standing on the sidelines as others monopolized her son’s time.  Doesn’t this happen to us?  When they are small, we are their everything.  They get older and friends are more important.  They get married and pull away a little more.

Finally, there is His crucifixion.  Could she ever have imagined she would live through such pain and anguish as seeing her firstborn tortured and tormented in such a way?  Was it ever feasible in her mind that she would stand at the foot of a cross, her heart in misery, as her baby took His last, painful breath?  The suffering our children go through is often from their own poor choices.  But even when our children love and serve God, they still suffer.  When they hurt, we hurt.

Had Mary known all the fear, pain, and sorrow that was to come, would she have taken on the task of being mother to the Christ child?  I say, YES SHE WOULD!

She KNEW she was bringing the Son of God into the world.  She KNEW much was to be expected of Him.  She KNEW it would not be easy.  But she also knew what a tremendous, precious gift she was being given.  She knew what an honor and privilege it was to be chosen.  She knew that God had great favor for her.  She trusted that God would give her all she needed to accomplish the task.  She believed!  And because of her belief, she experienced that sweet baby in a manger.  She took pride in her Son’s ability to preach, teach, and reach, even at a young age.  She found honor, I am sure, in the following He acquired as He healed, prayed, and taught His way across the land.  She had a great sense of honor, through her pain, for a Son who would lay down His life, His sinless life, for the sins of all mankind.  He was a Son who, before He took His last breath, made sure His mama was taken care of. “When Jesus therefore saw his other, and the disciple whom he loved standing by, He said to His mother, ‘Woman, behold your son!’ Then He said to the disciple, ‘Behold your mother!’” (John 19:27-27) And she found such overwhelming comfort in the resurrection of her Son and His ascension into Heaven. Jesus was a gift to Mary and she treasured Him. “And His mother treasured all these things in her heart.” (Luke 2:55)

Doing Right

 

imageBut he gives more grace. Therefore it says, “God opposes the proud, but gives grace to the humble.” James 4:6
Pride…it is a wicked emotion. We have all heard the old adage “Pride comes before the fall.” It is pretty safe to say that if you let your pride govern you, if you let pride dictate your words and actions, you WILL fall.

Why are we always so concerned with being right? Why is that self-satisfaction so rewarding to our fleshly selves? When we walk in the flesh, being right holds such a high level of importance in our lives. It affects us in our homes, in our family relationships, in the workplace, and in all we do.

What a wonderful world this would be if we could all put our focus on DOING right instead of BEING right. If we could all live with the humility, love, and compassion of Jesus, wouldn’t this world be a better place? If we could live a life to serve and aid others, instead of the self-serving way we tend to live, we could do so much good and make such a statement for Christ.

God is not pleased with our pride. He is pleased with our humility. He is not pleased with our numerous justifications on why we are right. He is more concerned with the hearts of the humble, who are willing to give and receive grace. Don’t waste your precious days striving to BE right. Spend them like Jesus did, DOING right to others, and pleasing his Heavenly Father.

Realize Your Value

image“For you created my inmost being; you knit me together in my mother’s womb. I praise you because I am fearfully and wonderfully made; your works are wonderful, I know that full well.” Psalm 139: 13-14

God made each of us specifically for his purpose. He crafted us carefully and masterfully to do his works. In his eyes, we are beautiful, precious, treasured, and so very valuable. Trouble is, we sometimes have difficulty seeing ourselves in that light. Maybe you have been told time and time again how ugly, stupid, or unworthy you are. Perhaps no one has ever spoken words of affirmation to you. It could be that your self-esteem has been wounded and your confidence level is at an all-time low.

Ladies of Virtue, let me assure you of THIS: God loves you! He finds great value in your life. He has a worthy purpose for you, or he wouldn’t have created you. You are capable of incredible things! You are incredible! You are special and chosen!

Don’t let the enemy’s lies steal your courage or your motivation. Don’t let him rob you of your confidence or weaken your self-esteem. Look to God. Seek him to reveal your purpose. Read his word to be assured of the high value that he places on you. Surround yourself with others who will recognize and appreciate your incredible gifts. Look in the mirror and see what God sees….a beautiful woman of virtue!